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7 Tips to Overcome the Fear of Rejection What would life be like if you didn't care whether everybody liked you or not? Stop fear of rejection limiting your options. What does all fear really amount to? Loss. We fear: losing our health losing our life losing our status losing money losing our peace of mind losing our youth and looks. We also fear, perhaps more than anything else, losing approval from others. Fear of rejection is widespread. In tribal times, being ejected from the safety of a group could have meant death. No wonder many of us like to 'fit in'. Fear should keep us alert and safe - like the beam from a lighthouse warning ships of submerged dangers. But too much fear, like a super-beam of light blinding the ship's captain, can cause the loss of the very thing we feared losing. And this may be especially true when it comes to fear of rejection. Take Kelly; her fear was taking over her life and damaging her relationships. "I ...

Can You Keep A Secret? As a small child, I found it nearly impossible to keep my Christmas purchases a secret. I tried to avoid the recipient after buying their gift because I’d lose control of my mouth and would spontaneously reveal my secret. Even such a small secret was very uncomfortable to keep. As I got older, the challenge increased. I remember friends saying, “I’m going to tell you something, but don’t tell anyone.” I’d reply, “No, please don’t tell me.” I knew the mental torture that I would surely endure once their secret was deposited into my mind. Fresh out of college as a new CPA, I landed a job as an auditor. Now, I was the one who got to flush out and divulge the secrets. That felt more comfortable. Today, I’ve expanded even more in my relationship to secrets as I dig up hidden secrets from the ancient world. As someone who has devoted my entire life to either keeping secrets or uncovering them, I’ve come to know one thing. The truth does set us free. Keeping se...

"Thinkin Bout You" A tornado flew around my room before you came Excuse the mess it made, it usually doesn't rain In Southern California, much like Arizona My eyes don't shed tears, but, boy, they pour When I'm thinkin' 'bout you (ooh, no, no, no) I been thinkin' 'bout you (you know, know, know) I been thinkin' 'bout you Do you think about me still? Do you, do you? Or do you not think so far ahead (ahead)? 'Cause I've been thinkin' 'bout forever (Oooh, oooh) Or do you not think so far ahead (ahead)? 'Cause I've been thinkin' 'bout forever (Oooh, oooh) No, I don't like you, I just thought you were cool Enough to kick it Got a beach house I could sell you in Idaho Since you think I don't love you, I just thought you were cute That's why I kissed you Got a fighter jet, I don't get to fly it, though I'm lyin' down thinkin' 'bout you (ooh, no, no, no) I've been thinkin...

4 Signs You Care Too Much  You And Your Needs Are Never A Priority You are the kind of person to make everyone else gets a plate before you serve yourself. This means that you don't always get a plate of food for yourself. You constantly make sure everyone around you has what they need to succeed, but never listen to your own needs for success. You are so busy making sure everyone feels empowered and loved your own needs get pushed to the side. Your own mental and spiritual health can be jeopardized. Solution: It isn't greedy for you to give yourself priority. If you are starving, you can't work to feed another person. You have to help yourself and maintain your own health and opportunities to grow. If you aren't moving forward and nurturing yourself, you will have limited resources to share with others. To help others YOU MUST HELP YOURSELF. You Fear The Opinions And Rejections Of Others You are motivated by the opinions of others. You don...

10 THINGS THAT SMART PERSON CAN'T SAY Pittysnow “This is the way it’s always been done.”  Technology-fueled change is happening so fast that even a six-month-old process could be outdated. Saying  this is the way it’s always been done  not only makes you sound lazy and resistant to change, but it could make your boss wonder why you haven’t tried to improve things on your own. If you really are doing things the way they’ve always been done, there’s almost certainly a better way. “It’s not my fault.”  It’s never a good idea to cast blame. Be accountable. If you had any role—no matter how small—in whatever went wrong, own it. If not, offer an objective, dispassionate explanation of what happened. Stick to the facts, and let your boss and colleagues draw their own conclusions about who’s to blame. The moment you start pointing fingers is the moment people start seeing you as someone who lacks accountability for their actions. This makes people nervous. Som...

Family might be defined as a group of people who are related to each other,  but it’s more than that . It’s a meaningful connection, an  experience . It’s an incredible and unbreakable bond—created by mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers. It’s comfort in a world of uncertainty. It’s a shoulder to lean on.  It’s a source of inspiration.  It’s love and support. It’s that warm and fuzzy feeling. It’s wonderful, and it’s necessary.

20 Outfit Ideas for a Stunning Ramadan Iftar Look هذا المقال متاح باللغة العربية Welcome Ramadan 2017 with  20 outfit ideas for a stunning Ramadan Iftar look.   There’s nothing like Ramadan  gatherings, whether it’s with your family or with your friends, you always have fun! And who doesn’t like to look great on a Ramadan gathering? Seize the Ramadan opportunity to dress in a new way, and maybe these 20 outfit ideas would help you pick just the right outfit to look stunning for a Ramadan Iftar party.  Kaftan dresses and kimonos are a great option for a Ramadan Iftar party, so you’ll find more than one way to  style them. But also  you can ditch your jeans  for pleated skirts, dresses and shirt dresses. Scroll down to get inspired this Ramadan by these 20 outfit ideas for a stunning Ramadan Iftar look. Do you have a fashion-related question? Head over to  ASK FUSTANY  and ask away! You’ll instantly get your question ans...